100 Fun Questions to Ask Your Spouse on a Date

Today, I have compiled a list of 100 fun questions to ask your spouse when out on a date! Raise your hand if you absolutely love date nights with your significant other but can sometimes find yourself quiet or have nothing to talk about! That makes the two of us. We all know that dates are necessary for any relationship and very much needed, especially after the past year we’ve all had. Personally, my husband and I like to switch things up; sometimes we like to go on breakfast dates that include some type of coffee and a delicious pastry. Other times, we like to go out to dinner, where we can enjoy a non-home cooked meal! (You can get to know us better by going here) But even with the different date activities, we can often find ourselves lost with what to talk about! So, here is the solution for us and you! 🙂

What if date nights are boring? or not as exciting as they used to be?

Let’s face it, if you’ve been in a relationship with your spouse for a long time, dates can become repetitive or even boring at times. Yes, you can always explore new restaurants, cities, and experience new activities together…but sometimes you just don’t know what to say during these dates. You may find that you don’t have much to talk about with your spouse because you technically know everything about each other. So here you are, out and about, enjoying a yummy meal with the person you love the most yet you feel like there isn’t much to say. So, what do you do? Like many of us do nowadays, we pick up our phones, scroll through social media or your email or your texts.  

Well I am here to tell you that you don’t need to pick up that phone to get distracted or look for conversation starters. In fact, I am here to encourage you to put your phones aside and enjoy each other’s company.  Today, I want to share with you one-hundred, yes you read that right, 100 questions that you can ask each other when you’re out on a date. These questions are going to spark some many other conversations.

I’ve rounded up the best questions that I have read online or came across them in restaurants. If you live in NJ, you’ve got to check out the Chit-Chat Diner in Hackensack. They have the best set of card with questions similar to these that you can enjoy using while eating a delicious meal. I can’t wait to see you all using them with your significant others. If you do, don’t forget to let me know down below! And spread the love with others by sharing my blog. And before you scroll to the questions, I want to let you know that my friend at SimplyJolayne has a great blog post about fun questions that you can ask your partner as you travel! She curated questions about different topics such as, finances, food, faith, childhood and much more. You can find her blog post here. If you scroll down to the bottom of the blog post, you can get a printable of all the questions.

Date Night Questions to Ask Your Spouse:

1. What is the most adventurous thing you have ever done?
2. If you could become fully knowledgeable on any one subject, which subject would you choose?
3. If you could “uninvent” any past invention, which one would it be?
4. If, for your next birthday, someone offered to make you the ultimate dessert of your choice, what great concoction would you request?
5. What does your ideal day look like?
6.  What is your favorite date of ours?
7. What’s another career you think you would enjoy?
8. If you won the lottery, what would you do with the money?
9. Which of your parents are you most like?
10. Who is a relative of yours that you admire?
11. If you could live one day over and over again for the rest of your life, which would it be ?
12. Of all the restaurants that we’ve been to together, which is your favorite?
13. What is your biggest fear in life?
14. If you had to be of a different ethnicity than you actually are, to which heritage would you most like to belong?
15. If you were writing an autobiography, what would be the book’s title?
16. What is the one thing that I do that drives you the most nuts?
17. What physical feature do you love most about me?
18. What physical feature of yours makes you the most self-conscious?
19. What is the one nightmare you remember from your childhood?
20. What is your all-time favorite movie?
21. What is one thing you wish you could change about yourself?
22. If we could live anywhere else in the world, where would it be?
23. What is your dream car?
24. What is your favorite dessert?
25. If a genie granted you 3 wishes, what would you wish for?
26. What is your biggest regret?
27. Describe yourself in three words
28. Describe me in three words
29. What did you want to be when you were a child?
30. What is your happiest childhood memory?
31. When do you feel most loved?
32. What would you say is your biggest strength?
33. What would you say is your biggest weakness?
34. When are you the happiest?
35. What is the craziest thing you’ve ever done?
36. If you could switch places with one person for a day, who would it be and why?
37. What are two things I can do to make you feel more loved?
38. What stresses you out the most?
39. Where do you see us in 5 year? 10 years? 20 years?
40. What is the weirdest food you’ve ever eaten? Did you like it?
41. What is your favorite tradition from your childhood?
42. What do you love most about me?
43. What’s a new hobby you’d like to try?
44. What do you think we need to work on the most in our relationship?
45. For what in your life do you feel most grateful?
46. If you could meet one famous person who would it be?
47. If you could go back in time, what age would you be?
48. Who was the worst teacher you ever had?
49. Who was the best teacher you ever had?
50. Tell me about 3 things you used to be scared of as a child?
51. Would you rather have the ability to fly or the ability to be invisible?
52. If you had to pick one meal to eat for the rest of your life, what would you choose?
53. Money, power, or good looks; which would you rather have an unlimited supply of?
54. What’s the best advice you ever received?
55. What is your favorite book?
56. What is your favorite song?
57. What do you want to do when you retire?
58. If you could have one superpower, what would it be?
59. What’s your favorite memory with your mom?
60. What’s your favorite memory with your dad?
61. What’s the angriest you have ever felt?
62. What’s your favorite personality trait of yours?
63. Did you collect stuff as a child?
64. What’s the most scared you ever felt, as a child?
65. What’s the accomplishment you are most proud of?
66. Which of your friends would you choose if you had to be on a desert island with just one?
67. What would you like most: a summer house, a year-long vacation, or a boat?
68. What’s your greatest talent?
69. Did you ever want more or fewer siblings?
70. How did your siblings shape who you are?
71. What’s something you used to believe about relationships, but no longer do?
72. How does your life compare to how you imagined it growing up?
73. What traditions would you like our family to have?
74. Is there a personality trait that always ticks you off in a person?
75. Who is more of a risk taker, you or me?
76. Would you rather live in only hot weather forever, or only cold weather?
77. If you could choose your own name, what would you choose?
78. If you could go back in time and ask any famous person in history one question, whom would you question and what would you ask?
79. You’ve been given the chance to travel into the future to see how the world will change over the next 50 years. What change in particular are you most interested in?
80. What is one event in the future whose outcome you would really like to know now?
81. Which punctuation mark would best describe your personality?
82. If rain could fall in any scent, what scent would you want it to be?
83. What was your favorite class in high school?
84. Did you ever consider a totally different career path?
85. If you were in charge of the bill gates foundation, but could only spend funds tackling one issue, what would it be?
86. Did you like high school or college better?
87. Are you an optimist, a pessimist or a realist?
88. Is there anything you’ve always wondered about me, but have hesitated to ask?
89. What do you remember about learning to drive?
90. How can we prioritize God/our faith more?
91. Who has been the kindest to you in your life?
92. Who has been the biggest influence on your life?
93. Think of all our married friends, what are some of the positive things you see in their marriages that you’d like to see in ours?
94. (If you have kids), Do you feel like our marriage is a good example to the kids? In what ways? Are there things we could improve?
95. What has helped you grow in your walk with God this past year?
96. What have you been asking God for in prayer recently?
97. What is your favorite time of the year? what memories do you enjoy most from them?
98. What do you think God is doing in our marriage right now?
99. What is the most courageous thing you’ve ever done?
100. What things did you see in me that made you want to marry me?